When you marry, you take on another branch of family. Maybe this isn't true for some people, but it is especially true in my case. I love my husband and therefore it only made sense that I would love his people too. He comes from a blended family: Dad had two children from his first marriage, Mom had two children from her first marriage (including dear hubby), and they had another child after they were married. A literal yours, mine and ours. Add in spouses, girlfriends and kids, and you've got your own family reunion started with just one branch of his family. Our future generations will need nametags to determine who belongs to whom. (I say that from experiences at my dad's family events: seven children on a grandparent level equals tons of relatives). DH has been really good about taking on my family too, so I guess that really made it easier for me to just accept that his family IS my family now too.
With the combined forces of our families (and I mean that in a completely good way), things are bound to happen that make you happy, make you laugh, or even make you sad. One of those things happens tonight. We'll be in attendance at a commissioning service for his older brother and family tonight. They leave later this month to go overseas and do mission work. While I praise God that they have answered His call to go do His work, I am saddened that it will take them away for a total of three years. Granted, it is only three years, but the kids are only 5 (almost) and a little over a year. It'll be weird to see the girls again after they've had three years of time to grow up, and sad that we won't get to see them as they do. It'll be sad that they won't be just 45 minutes away, even if we didn't get together that often to begin with. Holidays that once saw them there by default, will now seem to have an empty spot, because they won't be there to fill it.
I know that God has His hand on them during this transition. I know that He is taking care of them. I know that it isn't my job to worry or be sad, but to praise Him for using them to fulfill His mission. So tonight, as we say goodbye, that's what I'll be doing. Praising God for allowing my people to do His work in such a big way.
God blesses us all...